yes i agree with everything you have just said in your comment its true he isnt the person i fell in love with and i am beginning to think i dont even kn ow him at all, hes deluded he thinks he can do it on his own and now hes decided that he wants to stop smoking too which is probs going to make things a whole lot worse has hes trying to get rid of 2 addictions at once… hes seeking help to stop smoking but wont seek help to stop the drugs which really only tells me one thing maybe he does want to stop smoking but the drugs i dont think he does because why wont he seek help for that? and thats great news about your son im glad hes actually doing something to help his self. he must be very strong minded and willing to do it, congratulations to your son because it takes a good strong person to actually take that step and seek help 🙂 i wish you and your son all the best for the future and fingers crossed he wont let this vile drug take control 🙂 x