Reply To: still battling on

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Morning Sue…….its a hell we are living in…..My guess is he is somewhere with other addicts…Your tough love hasnt backfired at all hunni…he just isnt coming round because you choose not to be around him on drugs….You have stopped enabling him and that in itself is good…..Dont be hard on yourself…as you say he is 34 and its HIS choice to take drugs….addiction is hard and I know that 99% of addicts hate it…..The sad thing is we cant save them, its really down to them… Dont give up, stay strong cause all our kids deserve to have that chance…I pray every night for all our addicted kids…and I will never give up on my son…I JUST CHOOSE TO STOP ENABLING HIM!!!!!!!!!!!!! My son started a 4 month prison sentence yesterday….just as things were looking better…I know it sounds crappy, but last night I felt at ease, knowing where he was…I hope to god he uses that time to reflect on the road he has been travelling on
sending hugs, strength and love to you Sue, and not forgetting Fiona or any of the other mums and dads living this hell…..xxxxxxxx

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