I know that you are right, it just doesn’t sit easy with me…..but in my heart I know exactly what will happen if I set him up again, he will take my money let me get his car back up to date and then blow all his cash and let his car go back in arrears. I know that will happen, and when I think that I can be strong because I know I cant help him, not even if I gave him my bank card. It would never be enough. He has made my life a misery over the last couple of years and I don’t deserve it, I know that, I have only ever tried to help him. In return I get called a f ing retard etc. he isn’t my son anymore….so I will stick with it, and pray that he can find the strength to pull his self back round. xxx
