Ah of course he will blame you for not turning up for the job , easier to do than accept responsibility for himself . If he really wants a job he will find one that he can get to under his own steam . Surprising how resourceful they can be when it comes to getting their drugs and alcohol . It’s hard I know but try not to take the verbal abuse to heart . Once it’s out of his mouth he has forgotten it . Don’t go over and over the conversations in your mind it will only torment you . Try not to nag or advise him it will only fall on deaf ears and wind him up further . For a time now try to concentrate on your own life again doing things that give you some feeling of peace. I meditate and that helps me towards a calm mind . My email is paynemax2@aol.com. If at any time you would rather mail then please feel free . I’m sending many good thoughts to you . X
