This story is so similar to mine. I had to tell my partner to leave yesterday, I knew he was am addict in the past but found out yesterday it wasn’t kept on the past, in fact the using . never stopped. Cocaine has turned him into a different person and there was no way I’m having an addict around my kids so he had to go. I’m In pieces, almost grieving for the man I fell for, grieving for what could have been. I agree with everybody here that you have to get your children away from him. I’ve done it and I never thought I could but the kids are number one. I still don’t under stand addiction, I’m hurt confused and almost ashamed that I’m not good enough to come before a line of white powder. It’s great seeing everybody giving support and advice xxx