Hello. I am in a near identical situation. Been
With my fella 11yrs, discovered coke addiction last year and he has also ran up payday loan debts, maxed credit cards secretly ect. He relapsed earlier this year which I didnt discover until after I unexpectedly fell prrgnant with our 2nd child in April. I took hos bank card away n monitored every penny he spent but he strapped it and then comfesssd he needed 300 quid to pay his dealer. At this point I kicked him out. He came round a few days later and got aggressive m stole my bank card n all the cash I had. I had to call police who notified social services. They have said they would want to asess him before I could let him come back (which I wont until he starts a drug addiction treatment programme) he is sayin he will but keeps puttin it off. So im 4mth preg with a 5yr old n a boyf who isnt facing up to the seriousness of the situation. I cant offer you advice but would gladly be someone you can talk to if ya need it because I understand your position
