Reply To: The nightmare begins again

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amandaa
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I became hardened like you and then let him back in and my guard has gone down so i feel as if i am back at the beginning which is stupid really as nothing has changed and I know it will take a while to become harder again. The other problem is everything is a mess, his finances, paperwork, benefits all over the place. If I dont deal with it, he doesnt and then it just gets into a bigger mess. I hear some saying its not my job, its his, but most of the time i genuinely dont think he is capable of it as he is so far removed from the real world. I know i need to put some boundaries back in place for myself and I intend to do this. I guess right now I am just weary of it all and want some peace, but with him there never can be peace because even if i block him, you still worry, you still think about it. Unless you have been through it, you have no idea how hard it is. x

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