So have you. It all sounds very familiar. My son hasnt done a days work in his life. Ive tried to sort the budgeting thing, i take money out of his account to hold back for gas/electricity and by end of day 1, the money has gone. I could never have my son back to my house. Its just not an option, the chaos, damage, violence he causes is not something i can have again. He has been in court numerous times and really has no more lifelines left. He is in breach of his current probation order, always is, we will see whether they enforce it. So far they havent. Its pointless. My sons debts are mostly court fines and train fines. He says its my fault he got them as some of them are against me when he has done something i have called the police! Almost funny he thinks like that! I know my situation is very very extreme. When ive been to drug family meetings i sit there and nobody else’s stories seem anywhere close to mine. Makes me feel very isolated. I dont have hope anymore as i dont think he will ever change. Feels a bit like a life sentence! Always here if you need to rant xxx
