Six weeks on ……. I saw my son on Friday . First time in two & months . He is still with his sister and doing well at work . He’s gained weight , his skin is better , he was relaxed and courteous with me . Two hugs !!! He’s doing so well that he’s joining us for a family dinner later today . Am I nervous ……… Oh yes I am ! The memories of who he was are still all too fresh but although I may be outwardly calm my feet will be paddling like mad below the waterline !! This is a big day for us . I know he’ll be nervous too . For all of you still fighting for your “lost” ones do what it is you have to do ……. For me it was to stop enabling in every sense of the word and step right back . This advice on Adfam probably saved our sanity . Fingers crossed for today !!!
