Susan enabling is something most parents/partners do, without even thinking about it…..when you love someone so deeply, and see their pain, all you want to do is make or try and make things better, easier, etc….. Once a parent stops enabling it can be a time of sadness……however, it empowers that person too..it has been the hardest decision I have ever made, but I wish I had made it earlier…….it doesn’t mean we are giving up on the addict….
