Hi ladies, it’s so hard, and i enabled my son for 4 years..I was weak too, but I’ve seen my son high, irrational, begging for money, finding crap in his room, seeing the boy who I didn’t recognise, and believe me it wasn’t just cannabis , weed, he was taking…..cannabis IMO should be criminalised with massive consequences..cause they start with this rubbish and turn to stronger stuff…..I’ve heard him say he wants to kill himself, hurt someone, he has thieves, lied, done pretty much everything and more….and I helped him…..gave him money, brought him food, set him up in a flat, paid his fines…..thankfully I sought help for me, and got support…and once I made the decision to stop enabling him I stuck to it…it really is the hardest thing a parent can do, but it was the right decision for my family and I, and that includes my son….every day is a battle for those addicts out there..I pray your kids seek the help they need….hugs to all xxx
