[cant-take-no-more]

Lollipop is right…your dad chose his addiction, it had nothing to do with you or any other member of the family…addicts are good at blaming everyone else…you have made your life for the time being in Canada,and I applaud you for that. I think your father is very lucky the family are trying to help. And his anger speaks volumes, cause he is probably more angry at himself…you can’t save him, only he can,but if and when he decides to get help will be the time that he needs the support….your mum sounds like a wonderful woman, has she sought help and support from anyone?cause living with an addict really wears you down….let us know how things go..sending strength and love xx