Reply To: Having a really tough time

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jcw
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Well since my last post in July I was diagnosed with cancer I had my operation during this time I was confined to my room to rest my husband really looked after me .but after a while he started drinking again. When my treatment came to an end my husband was diagnosed with cancer of the bladder we could not believe that both of us had cancer. He had the operation he had to go for chemo the doctor went mad at him for drinking he said because of his drinking they could only risk a little chemo but they said he must not drink at all before or during or after treatment.his treatment Finnish four weeks ago heis suffering side effects of his treatment I was so proud of him not drinking as I thought. On Wednesday night of this week I was letting the dog out and he had put a walking stuck near the door near the back of my dryer I thought this strange so I got a torch to investigate there it was a brandy bottle he had purchased that afternoon nearly all gone. I really do not know what to do . Shall I confront him or should I wait until another bottle appears imam really worried he looks awful going to bed at 5 pm not feeling right no wonder his treatment is still working so how will the drink effect it now

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