Hi Maddie and Louie
I am so sorry to hear your stories and how hard it is for you and the rest of your families to cope. I work for a charity called The Icarus Trust. We support people like yourselves who are dealing with the addiction of a friend or family member. We know what a difficult time this is for you so we have trained volunteers called ‘Family Friends’ that have lots of experience of talking to people in similar situations to yourselves. It often helps talking with people who understand where you are coming from and they can also signpost you to other help that is available. If you think it would be helpful please get in touch.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
Good luck with everything!