Having a child who is addicted is a nightmare…and it never ends…..they lie, become really good at it, steal , show no respect and treat others like dirt….I’ve been there……my son was in recovery for over a year then has 2 months of doing alcohol, weed, miow moiw and anything else….I stopped all contact…I don’t need that shit in my life…you may think I’m cruel, but it works for me and he knows I will only be around when he gets back on the recovery train….I don’t want to hear how shit his life is…he made the decision to take drugs so if it’s shit, it’s his own doing…forward fast to yesterday…he rings me, tells me has made an appointment for today to see his drug counsellor and doctor….could I take him? So I pick him up from his counsellor and all I hear is poor me…so I tell him to get out the car and contact me, when he is serious…I’m so sick of his self pity! It’s his birthday Sunday and I can’t believe he’s still messing up…time will tell. I pray he pulls his head out of his pitying arse and mans up…I know he has it in him to do it…..stay strong ladies….xxxxx