I know exactly how you all feel, I’ve put up with exactly the same for years but have had to toughen up and come to the conclusion that my 28 year old son won’t change unless HE wants to. I have done all I can to try and help him and I believed he wanted to change his ways but it was all talk and no action! I’m not bailing him out anymore or giving him money. I will always be here for him for a meal or buy him toiletries etc but that’s it until I see evidence that he has changed. He was such a sweet boy, you never think it could happen to your family and such a shock when it does. I also dread the thought of winter coming and him being homeless. Perhaps they have to get this low to bring them to their senses! Stay strong and look after yourselves ladies.x
