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Never give up hope…oh dear what an awful situation..there is nothing harder than watching someone you love slowly kill themselves…I know you love him, but violence is the worst,and I doubt it won’t be the last time he does it..sorry if that sounds harsh, but I can’t flower it up for you….and know that you can’t save him…he has to want to save himself….as for saying the right thing, there are no words that are right for the situation you are both in…you need support Hunni….it’s the best thing I did. It made me realise i don’t have to put up with my sons behaviour, and it made me realise I can set boundaries,which I have….good luck Hunni xxx