Hi Cappuccino…..as a mother and grandmother,your responsibility has to lie with the child….I’ve talked to many grandparents in the same situation…3 years ago I was in a similar situation, my son had left his partner, who was struggling to cope with my GS and her other kids…both were into some form of addiction….and social services were called..I decided to try and support initially, however I could see my GS was not getting the care…after he fell down the stairs and was rushed to hospital. I knew I had to air my concerns and look out for him…my son and his GF hated it….but I don’t regret it. Thankfully they worked closely with SS and have since realised I’m not an ogre but a support system for them..All children deserve to feel loved, be safe and fed….
