Hi Anne,
You might like to contact The Icarus trust as we are a charity that supports the friends and families of addicts. You might like to have some support for yourself and we could put you in touch with one of our Family Friends. They are trained volunteers who would understand what you are going through and might help you to find help.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope that this helps you. Good luck with everything.
