Hi Rob,
This must be so difficult for you as a parent seeing your son like this. He has got to want to engage in help himself if it is to be successful but there is help for you and his mum out there. We are a charity called The Icarus Trust which was started in order to give support to people like yourselves dealing with a loved ones addiction. If you think it would help you please contact us and we would put you in touch with one of our experienced trained volunteers called Family Friends. Talking with one of these might help you to find a way forward.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
Good luck!
