Hi,
It sounds as if you might like to have someone you could talk with who would understand what you are dealing with. I work for a charity called The Icarus Trust that supports the friends and families of people with addictive behaviours because we know how hard it is. Maybe talking to one of our trained volunteers would help you to see a way ahead for yourself and your children and signpost you to what help might be out there for your partner.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
I hope that you can find some help for yourself as well as your partner.
