Hi Rosemary,
Thank you for posting your story and sharing how you feel about your daughter’s addiction. It is a very strong thing to do to stop enabling her and you might wish to talk with people who could give you some support.
The Icarus Trust is a charity that provides support for people like yourself who are having to deal with the awful impact of a family member’s drug addiction on yourself and the rest of the family.
We have a team of trained and experienced people who would understand what you are going through and might help you to make sense of how you are feeling.
If you feel it would help please get in touch. You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best to you.