Hi, JemS,
I’m sorry to hear about your daughter! Don’t beat yourself up. Lesson learned, now fight on.
Drug use can oftentimes go hand in hand with mental health issues. Someone I love beyond words has the same two challenges.
If you haven’t already done so, find yourself a support group for loved ones of addicts, whether in your community or online.
In my opinion, your daughter should be your sole focus! It’s kind of you to want to support the boy as well, but let his parents be there for him. You have enough to deal with! No two people are the same, so how your daughter reacts to treatment will most likely differ from that of her boyfriend. Moreover, your daughter also needs help with her mental health issues. So again, though it could be just me, I would be 100% dialed in on taking care of my daughter!
Your daughter has a long life ahead of her, and plenty of time to right the ship!
Peace.