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Hi there.
Basically ask yourself are you happy? Is his behaviour having a negative effect on you? Do you realistically see yourself having children with this person? Because the way he is now may be the way he will be forever.
I know it’s a lot to take in but you need to set some boundaries. Maybe research realistic ones, whatever you set make sure you follow them through though, otherwise he won’t take you seriously and you’ll end up feeling worse.
You need to seek help for yourself. You need to break away from the cycle to see what you actually want. You sound like you’ve got used to putting up with his behaviour and are now just turning a blind eye to it!
The life you want to live is out there but it has to start with changes made by you.
Someone once said to me “ your husband might be acting insane due to drugs, but you are the sane one and you need to do what’s best for you”.
Look for al anon or drug support groups in your area, they will help to give you the strength to do what’s best for you! Xx
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