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August 31, 2019 at 6:34 pm #5522elaine24Participant
Hi All,
I’ve just turned 35 and have been drinking and doing gear for over 15 years. I stopped for a while when I was pregnant and for a year or so after she was born and slowly got back into it.
The last two years I’m been sniffing gear every weekend, and I then sometimes during the week.
I have a good job, loving boyfriend and beautiful daughter. I do it because I need to self destruct and I don’t have any hobbies really.
I was on hear the other night having a complete meltdown about it all, I need help.
I’m going drugs and alcohol counselling on the 10th september.
Anotjer person from here recommended that I listen to podcasts etc to distract me.
Talking about it has been a good help so far.
What else shall I do?
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August 31, 2019 at 9:35 pm #14856danman83Participant
Get your ass in the gym 5 days aweek! Have a goal! If you want lose some weight.. set yourself a 3 month target.. if u want to gain.. do the same.
Join some classes , meet new friends.
Get a dog and go for long hilly walks.
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August 31, 2019 at 9:44 pm #14859elaine24Participant
Well Dan I hope youve had a good day today with your DIY.
I’ve messaged a gym as per a friend’s recommendation, I’m putting all of my effort into looking buff for Xmas!
Going to start my counselling and beat this shit once and for all.
I can’t get a dog until we get a house, so I shall pretend my cat is a dog ????
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August 31, 2019 at 9:47 pm #14860danman83Participant
Well thats a perfect target xmas time.. just dont get drunk at xmas. Lol have a target too save for new york or summat. I went last year.. wouldnt go again tho hahha
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August 31, 2019 at 9:50 pm #14861elaine24Participant
Yep exactly.
Hahahaha I think I want to have a good sober Xmas and just enjoy it.
I want to get some savings as I want to go florida next year… I just need the motivation now
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August 31, 2019 at 10:15 pm #14862danman83Participant
Good stuff u speak to your bf
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August 31, 2019 at 10:24 pm #14863elaine24Participant
I did indeed and told him becuse of it I’ve overspent as well.
He is a great guy and adores us and works two jobs, but I do feel lonely when he works all of the time.
I think this is a def trigger where I feel lonely and then would want to call it on..
I am just trying to understand what the triggers are and how to stop them really.
What’s your story anyway?
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August 31, 2019 at 11:02 pm #14864danman83Participant
H
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August 31, 2019 at 11:23 pm #14865danman83Participant
Dont mater then sorry
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