Hi everyone, I’m desperate for guidance in dealing with my son’s longtime addiction alcohol/drugs addiction.for many years I tried to help always ending in disappointment the years have taken a toll on this going round in a circle,I am doubtful he will ever stop.The fact he still believes he’s ok yet I see the chaos anger all very real ,how can I help him when he isn’t willing to go and seek help ,police arrests ,being a target for abuse whenever he goes off on a bender ,I feel I just wait for the next episode of a living nightmare in which I watch him distroying himself ,where and how can I get myself back to a point where my life doesn’t revolve around picking jack up and fixing him then it all starts again and again,I work as a healthcare provider but it’s difficult looking after the elderly when my day always starts with ,the thoughts of jacks day and events