Hi all,
My partner is addicted to coccaine, he use to do it when at uni and years ago and then when we started to date he stopped as he knew I didn’t like it … and now we are married (6 years) and for past year (approx) he has started again… it all began with him doing it every nyt, hiding it from me and obviously when I would find out we would argue – he has gotten violent at points… never physically hitting me but has come close….
Eventually we laid it all out and he blamed me for it all, how miserable he was and how I dnt make him happy…. long story short he apologised and said he will cut back/ to stopping…. I am the most important person to him etc…
But he hasn’t stopped or cut back…
His behaviour has changed, he’s nicer, helps out around the house – basically a good person but I find him doing drugs and am not sure what to do… he obv sleeps the next day to wear it all off…so that effects our life
I’m at cross roads as not sure what do do, stay, ignore his drug habit or leave (we have a daughter together) I can’t talk to anyone – feel so lonely
Ps: he has never got any help, previously it was “I’m not an addict” now he just jokes about taking lines…