[helpmeplease2020]

hi all, I really did not think I be on this forum but I need advice as im not fully aware of what I’m getting into. I been with someone who has an coke addiction over a number of years which I found out recently, dealers are contacting him and he says he will change which is another issue. The other problem is I think he done alot of damage to himself through the abuse of cocaine over the past decade, will this affect my chances of having kids with him as I got a bad feeling he done alot of damage to his organs and is impotent. He has hinted but not been direct that he lucky to have kids with me. He sexual needs towards me have shifted dramatically and I’m not sure if that’s because he no longer able to do anything? I’m concerned because at this stage i haven’t had sex with him ever though we did have foreplay many years ago. I think something has gone horribly wrong because he ready to settle down with me to ‘have kids’ but he not really making the move and puts this down to traditional values, im worried i will marry someone that is fully aware of his health issues but tricks me into staying with him for the sake of saving face to his family. If anyone can shed any light on this it will be helpful.

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