Am I losing my son?

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    • #8048
      fifi65
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      Hi Patrica, I share your life, its the mirror image of my own.. my sons coming up 30 in April and its been all about drugs since his teens.. He is a heroin/crack cocaine addict now.. homeless, I had to turn him out for my own sanity 🙁 I’ve told my son to only contact me now when he serious about getting clean ( again) you can Email me on jofio@live.co.uk and maybe we can help each other
      out, I feel ive wore my friends and family out, they care but are at a loss as to what to say anymore..
      stay strong fiona xx

    • #8049
      carole-helen
      Participant

      Hi Patrica & Fiona
      I am going through the same thing only my son is an Alcoholic then he turns to drugs, he went into rehab in 2011 he was clean for 18 months then relapsed then got got clean again but he’s been on & off for the past few months now.
      He was suppose to start a new job today he says he is at work but I don’t think he is 🙁 I see him twice a week but I have the same thing he tells me he lost his money or he owes someone money it’s always something .
      My family are fed up of listening to it & I don’t have friends I can trust to talk to about this I feel so alone It would nice to have contact with someone I can talk to my email address is coggsie1@googlemail.com
      Thank you x

    • #8054
      sad-and-tired
      Participant

      Hi both, if you don’t mind I will email as well. I am going through the same, I went to open road yesterday for a family session, guess what the family sessions are being cut due to funding in march. help for the family is so important. My son has court fines which he hasn’t been paying, I have tried to sort this out but he is now not paying again. Sometimes it feels as if he is pushing a self distruct button and I don’t know why. xxx

    • #8056
      patricia
      Participant

      BIG hello everyone and BIG hug as well, what we are all going through is just so similar. We need some sort of strength to get through and hopefully we have found just that by coming on to this site. I have lots of good friends but none have experienced just what my son is putting me through so hopefully chatting with all you ‘mum’s’ will help, not just me but us all:-) Keep in touch

    • #8057
      sad-and-tired
      Participant

      patricia I have emailed carol and fifi 55 and asked for your email address, I hope that is alright. I don’t want to put mine on the site. xxx

    • #8058
      patricia
      Participant

      No problem having my e-mail address, be good to talk with you all and hope it helps ‘US’ repair in some way!

    • #8059
      fifi65
      Participant

      Hi sad and tired I havent received an email hun, are you sure you sent it to the right address? jofio@live.co.uk

    • #8060
      sad-and-tired
      Participant

      sent it again. let me know if you get it x

    • #8061
      sad-and-tired
      Participant

      Patricia, if you want to leave your email address for me, I will contact you. my situation sounds like yours may have done a while back. xx or a mobile number. Would be good to be able to speak to someone.

    • #8088
      lily1
      Participant

      Hi ladies I’ve just been reading you blog , and your stories are so like mine, it is my 30year old daughter that worries me so much, she came home to stay with me as she was pregnant , I was willing to do this as I wanted her and the baby to have a chance at a proper life, three years on I’m not sure I can take it anymore, the constant lies and sneakyness and I’m at a loss as I feel I’ve tried everything and it just isn’t working, can anyone pleeeese advise.xxx

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