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My bf has had problems with addiction in the past. My father and ex husband suffer from substance abuse. Bf has started saying that I don’t respect his boundaries, but I think he is manipulating me in order to not be accountable for his own actions. He says I’m not respecting boundaries bc I talked to his mom and doctor when I figured out he had relapsed 2 years ago, and I show affection by hugs/cuddles when he tries to push me away (but then he hugs/cuddles back). I realize I have very poor boundaries with him, but am I being manipulated or codependent?

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