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Hey love, now breath…. its not yours or anyone elses fault…I blamed friends, girls he was with anyone but him…wow how stupid was I….IT IS HIS CHOICE, no one elses, and that is the hardest thing to come to terms with.You bring them up in a loving secure environment, show them right from wrong, help them with their dreams and then POW, along comes alcohol and drugs and theres no turninng back….Everything you have said is typical of what the rest of us have gone through, and are going through….I would go further than the head teacher and speak to your local MP, write to the school of governers and DEMAND they deal with it…..If the school is online, most put their anti bully policy on there..check you never know…..I think its time to get hard, and when he is in a better frame of mind discuss what your family expects from him, and what the consequesnces could be….Ive known parents shop their kids…drastic but effective, especially if they have never seen the inside of a police station before….I know thats not for all parents but just something else to think about…..IF I had known what my son was doing at that age, I would have gone to all his friends parents and told them…….most users hang out together!!! Parents in numbers is also effective!!! Hang in there hunni, you are not alone…..and dont forget to try and keep things as normal as you can for your other son….I make sure I have quality time with my other child…..even when I could cheerfully roll over and pull the duvet over my head….You can do this , and we are all here for you…keep in touch xxxx

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