[cjordan]

ive got son who 19 he say he not got problem we are arguing ive got daughter has well is young I love my son I don’t know what to do im struggling to cope with it now not sure what help ou t there

[danman83]

I use be bad on cannabis as a kid.. 5 years every day i had it for.. i quit when i was about 19. It was hard to do. But i say this with everything.. you have to want to quit yourself.. i was a nightmare for my mum and dad. Bad tempered. Punching holes in the doors at home. Hes got his future ahead of him im 36 and regret it all. The mates i had.. the messing around. Just sit down with him.and have a talk. And guide him.

[cjordan]

Hi Dan man how do you talk to someone who doesn’t talk to me I try talk to him about is day like now hedosent talk to me anymore comes home from work goes straight to his room start banging then smoke out is room it like now he just want get stoned all time I’ve haven’t got support partner is father decided desone I’m at 12 at least you now your older you have come out other side well done for achieving that

[danman83]

Ye but now i have abit of a coke problem. But im on my last warning or my gf will kick me out.and am doing good so far.he sounds like i was just wants stay away from people getting stoned. At least he works tho..and hes not going out doing harder drugs?? Or is he?? My mum was fed up with me. But i got a gf and i set myself targets. Just tell him u want sit down for 10 mins and talk.but dont go mad

[cjordan]

We are moving soon have asked him come with us I’m selling family home where is dad ilived it hard his farther hit me called me names guess he just want stay with his mates it hard we don’t communicate my house sold we going have rent for now he has distant himself from us hedosent do anything with us anymore not sure now he 19 he just want spend his time with his mates they always knocking for him even on Christmas day we will be moving out of area I’m not sure if it good idea guess where ever we go it follows us I’m not sure if he taking anything else he always got glazed look have see silver cannisters outside not sure what they are

[danman83]

O them silver cannisters is that laughing gas thing they all take.. they put it in balloons.. think u just need think of your self now to be honest

[cjordan]

thank im going ask him when we finally move if he comes with me it will be hard it will upset have got another son he has relised it not my fault he older he lives other side world we building on that guess with time my other son will relise he has got caring mother has always had guess it hard one intill you out of situation it up to him ill will get him help if he wont what im post to do it upset me that his father just deconed him dosent care have see him everyweek in town

does that laughing gas give them nose bleads are is he do something else

[danman83]

Nose bleeds is probably cocaine. Good luck.. hope u sort it all out

[icarus-trust]

Hi Cjordan,

Thanks for posting.

If you would like some help for yourself please contact The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that supports people who are dealing with a family member’s addictions. Maybe talking with one of our trained and experienced people would help to answer some of the questions you have and help you to decide what to do next.

You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org

All the best.

[cjordan]

thankyou I will am struggling at minute to do what do ill will go do that

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