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Hi, in a similarish situation but I’ve decided enough, is enough and told him I want a divorce. We’ve been together 20 years, have 2 amazing kids. He’s had several back operations over the past 14 years ended up on Oxycodone which he’s been snorting. He’s got really bad mental health problems now as a result too and drinks and smokes weed too. Now I’ve left him he’s trying to get help but not much is happening unfortunately and dealing with the rollercoaster of his emotions is exhausting. I’ve had to call the police twice in the last 2 weeks once because he was threatening to kill himself the second because he was outside spying on me whilst drunk and on god knows what he then crashed his sisters car. I now don’t know what he will do next as I’ve never seen him act like this before. Police haven’t been overly interested nor the local mental health crisis line. I’m really concerned that he won’t get the help he needs. But despite all of that I know I’ve made the right decision for me and my kids.
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Honestly – it will go on a along as you let it – as long as you put up with the lies and deceit
Don’t be scared of change – it certainly can’t get any worse and I promise You from experience – life will get better
I miss my ex everyday and will always love the man I met, but he’s long gone and so far removed from the man I ended up with.
He was destroying me and the kids and I couldn’t take anymore
It was the best but hardest decision I have ever had to make
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Literally just a moment ago found out that on top of the drink, weed, snorting prescription opioids he’s also been mixing cocaine too!
Every day it gets worse but everyday I know I’ve made the right decision to leave the relationship.
Thanks Esta just hoping now he’ll leave me alone to get on with my life.
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You will have weak moments but once you have made the decision there will always be no real turning back
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