[kathan]

I do hope you have been and had a health check given your partners sexual activities. It is important you look after yourself.
I f he was not an addict would you put up with that sort of behaviour? Only I wonder sometimes if opening up due to 12 steps is emotional blackmail to get you to stay.
We hang around waiting for the person we know and love to reappear. But do they

[rjs]

Hi, as soon as he told me I rung the clinic and got an appointment. I dont think I would put up with that behaviour if he was sober no. He says as a sober person he’d never treat me like that, but is being off your head on drugs a good enough excuse? Does it really make you behave in those sort of ways?

[icarus-trust]

Hi
If you would like to talk with someone who has experience of what you are going through and would understand please try The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that supports the friends and family of addicts because we know how difficult it is to cope. If you contact us you could be put in touch with one of our experienced trained volunteers. Talking things through might help you to come to terms with what’s happening and find a way forward.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
Good luck.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org

[cant-take-no-more]

Drugs change the person we know, and all that’s left is the shell….I’m so glad he’s getting help, that in itself is a step in the right direction. The truth is everything and working together , you both can get past this…..I truly hope things work out Hunni…..remember the addict has no conscience…..I’m glad he to,d you the truth, so you could make an informed decision about your future…hugs xx

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