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I don’t think he will stop on his own.pull him up each week for a drug test just change the days around. If he is saying it’s because he’s depressed could you try to take him to the doctors. At least that way you will know he wants help.
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Hi i can relate to your story i found out my partner has been using cocaine since we met, i had no idea. He had been going out to his van on our drive doing it then coming back in the house. But looking back with the information i know now the signs were there.
I completely understand what you mean about the lies, the lies have tore our relationship apart more than the drug use. He too suffers with depression and used the drugs to escape that. He used to spend days in bed, he was snappy, paranoid, just not a nice person to he around. He is on antidepressants now, and was seeing a drug counsellor but only went 3 times and then he made excuses not to go. He says hes been clean since xmas but i cant 100% believe him with all the lies hes told in the past especially regarding money. Hes so sneaky.
He has made some improvements, but because of everything i have just lost all respect, theres no trust and i feel angry towards him for spoiling what we had. I can completely understand where you are coming from. Its made me check his wallet and his pockets, seeing if theres anything to find. Im a trusting person but hes changed everything.
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Im exactly the same. He used to be a caring person and always making people laugh, thats the things i love about him but they aren’t there anymore. He has also told so many lies, about allsorts usually money. Its so upsetting and frustrating.
My partner is also on antidepressants since xmas and they have helped him a little. I dont think he is still using buy who knows i cant 100% trust him now. He says horrible things, things that i didnt think he could ever say. Do yoi find this too?
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