[chivasova]

Hello everyone

Don’t know what else to do ! I am with my partner for 13y and we have 2kids he is smoking cocaine for over a year from the start he did smoked lot’s often then I find out I went crazy. He is still working 12 hours 5 dys a week he das help lot’s with bills sometimes with the kids too

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I try to speak to him about all that he swear on kids life he will stop till now no change just what I see he is smoking every Friday when I

ask him why he don’t wanna talk but still laying he didn’t smoke.

He make me soo angry I can’t even see his face..I would live him but I don’t have money to find different place and he don’t wanna go..I am not scared to start again.

What do you think ladies

Thank you ????????????

[jorge15]

I can only offer you this advice. Separate the idea of whether you want to leave him from his drug problem. If you take the drugs away, would you be happy.

If the answer is yes. Then try to work with him. Ask him when he’s not high, does he honestly want to stop or is he happy to carry on as he is. If you’re going to stay and help him. Try to sit down with him and make a plan. But I mean a real detailled one. Work out how much help he needs and how much control he is willing to give you. And the biggest thing, make him feel comfortable with telling you when he does do it. If he feels like he is being judged he will just hide it

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