Hi Alex,
Thanks for posting Alex. So sorry to read your story about your boyfriend’s addictions and how its affecting you. I work for a charity called Icarus Trust. We offer support to people living with someone with addictions as we know how hard this is. If you contact us one of our family Friends would be in touch. They are trained and very experienced and would be able to help you answer some of your questions and tell you what other support we can offer both you and your boyfriend.
You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
Hope this helps. Good luck.