[nicnic21]

4 weeks ago I discovered my partner was signed up to multiple sites looking for sex and one night stands no activity from him didn’t read messages send or respond . search history showed local escorts massage parlours being googled . Escourts number in his phone unsure if used

We have 8 month baby my world collapsed.. he has denied ever meeting anyone or that he ever would meet anyone and never cheated stating it was cocaine and he has an addiction.

He states the Shame of admitting the addiction was unbearable but still denies acting on sexual tendencies only maturbation

States being so high not remembering even doing all of this ….

He is in recovery since and gone cold turkey we have split but omg the pain the shock

[tokiwartooth]

I’m so sorry for your situation. All that and having an infant. I think it’s good you’ve split, but it doesn’t take away the pain. Likely adds to it. I don’t have much in the way of advice, I think you’re already on the right track. Just read your story and wanted to say I hope things work out for the best. Keep doing what’s right for you and your child and it will.

[shell98]

This is basically me, it’s broken my world, my heart I’m struggling to put one foot in front of the other and my family blame me but I just want my old boyfriend back the good person he was

[nicnic21]

Hi Shell hope you are OK? It’s very tough to love an addict unfortunately for us when they are actively using our feelings are irrelevant and they are unable to behave in a functioning relationship. Have u children together ? I know for me I need stability and someone I can rely on I just got exhausted of enabling his behaviour. Has he seemed support for his addiction? X

[shell98]

Keep asking was I not good enough and it’s breaking me

[nicnic21]

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=GREzvBbcw7E check this ladies videos out also I found them very helpful x

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