[dfh]

In a word no. 15 years and still in that same boat after rehab, an accident, nearly losing his job, family and friends. And guess what? I’m still the bad guy not him.

If I had the choice to go back I’d say 100% leave, in fact run. Like Hussain bolt. You can’t fix them and they don’t want you to.

[serendipity24]

Thanks for your reply, Dfh. I am working on leaving, helping my boys find places to stay first and then I am gone. Putting my mental health first. But this pandemic really makes everything more difficult! You sound like a strong person, thank-you again for the reply.

[dfh]

Yes I would definitely stick to that plan. I wish I had. I used to be strong but years of mental anguish have wiped that out. Honestly even now I’m having to tip toe around him as he has been asleep all day after being up all night. Xx

[suzie]

I feel your pain,IV been in exactly the same situation and the money that’s went missing is rediculous,he’s stolen my children’s Xmas money, sold their games consoles. I tried to help him back in August I took him in got him clean and he changed his number then the whole thing started up again, IV had people banging on my door for money out car windows being smashed

He dissapears for days at a time and convinces himself he’s only been gone for one,there’s no concept of time at all

IV come to the inclusion he will never change it’s just my son I feel for he doesnr understand as he’s only 7, the whole situation is horrendous I feel for anyone going through this ????

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