[bear1989]

Before i got together with my boyfriend, i knew he had had a drug problem with crack cocaine before. He had been clean for a few months and had made huge positive changes to his life.

I have now come to realise that he has been occasionally smoking crack…and has started to amoke heroin to counteract the anxiety experienced by the crack.

I am completely out of my depth and i do not know what to do. He is completely mortified by his behaviour and wants to change, but i am completely heartbroken and completely unaware of how to deal with this behaviour.

I love him more than anything and i know he is just trying to deal with his past and stressful life…but i need some serious help on how to deal wth this.

[tottenham1]

I think if I had known what was coming with the same situation your in now I would have run!! I have two children age 15 and 17 years old and have been with my partner for 20 years and I don’t think I have yet had a year where he hasn’t relapsed! Some years worse than others and everytime I feel like I’m back at the beginning!! I’m still with my partner but it’s hard, we can’t do normal things like go out for a drink cos that leads to him sniffing coke then doing crack and then coming down off crack with heroin …. it’s truly never ending!! I have tried to understand and when his been in rehab have attended groups myself but it’s a very hard road and knowing the life I’ve had I wouldn’t want my daughter to live this.

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