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Hi Everyone,

I could really do with some advise from someone who may have already been through similar.

My husband is a depressive and is alcohol dependent. The last 6 years of our relationship have been blighted by lies, deception and denial, the last 3 have been unbearable. I have tried my hardest to help him, love him and support but he has had his head firmly in the sand and i have come to the end of my patience.

I have told him on numerous occasions that i need him to leave, he acknowledges and then acts like nothing has happened. We have kids, he uses them and tells them hes moving abroad on his own, Mummy wants to kick him out and the usual blackmail scenario that he wont survive the year without me. In my head I know what needs to be done, in my heart im struggling with what may happen to him and the fall out from our breakup. I really do care for him but for my own sanity and well being i cant take any more of the narcissistic behaviour

or emotional abuse. Any advice very gratefully recieved

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