[looley]

Hi I have never used an online forum before so please bear with. My beautiful son (19 ) has struggled with his mental health and drug abuse for about 4 years. It became critical 2 years ago and resulted in him being supported by a psychiatrist and CPN with medication. He’s has some little blips but at the moment we are going through a terrible time and I am at a loss. He is no longer a child – do I let him go? Do I throw him out? (I dont think I can) where and who can help??

[lindyloo]

Hi Looley and welcome to the forum.

I am also the mother of a 28yr son with alcohol and cocaine addictions. I totally sympathise with you, it’s a very difficult and stressful situation. Everyone on this forum has a loved one who is struggling with addictions, so we understand how you feel.

I don’t have all the answers unfortunately but if you read the other threads, there’s good advice and support from other mums, people in recovery and the forum offers advice and support on the home page.

My son lives independently, but he’s currently clean, and attending AA and CA meetings online. They introduce newcomers to the 12 steps and organise a sponsor.

Your son is still young yet, i wouldn’t give him any cash, but make sure he’s eating well., and staying away from negative influences. The Icarus trust may give you help too.

I hope and pray that you both get the support you need.

Always here to chat,

Take care

Lx

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