[tara123]

This is my first time ever posting but I desperately need advice..

My husband works longs hours and is only with us( myself and our 3 young children)at home on Sundays and even then he will be working in his yard and no matter how much I beg him for help he refuses and always states that the kids and the house is my job.. I feel so overwhelmed and can never get to anything myself anyways.. this has caused many rows and still says he doesn’t care, so every night when he comes home from work he will drink 3-4 cans every single night and go to bed but recently he has started coming home bananas drunk and driving 45 minutes from work drunk, I have tried talking to him which have caused many rows but every time he says he doesn’t care and puts everything on me blaming me for his drinking.. I’m so so lost and am fighting a losing battle.. the kids have heard some of the rows and asked me if I’m leaving.. this breaks my heart and I hate that they hear the fights and afraid that this is affecting them as their behaviour has gotten really bad lately.. I don’t know what to do and am so unhappy, has anyone been in this situation?

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