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September 28, 2022 at 5:49 pm #31269cornwallmother2020Participant
Hi.
As a mother of a beautiful adult son who has drug issues my heart goes out to you. I also struggle with how much I ‘may’ have enabled in the past. I ruminate about how things could have been done differently and on my bad days I blame myself.
I dont know what Im trying to say, just that who knows what is the right thing at the time? This is a huge learning curve with many mistakes made through love and desperation.
Big, non patronising hug X
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September 29, 2022 at 9:56 am #31276kasmumParticipant
Sending strength to you to cope with your rollercoaster journey.
I read @kalstars story they shared on the forum and I’ve since realised I NEED to try and take kalstars wife as inspiration and embrace tough love – my son needs to work hard to win me back. I think I’m going to find doing this hard and hope it’s a way forwards. Thank you for making the time to read and reply to my post.
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September 28, 2022 at 10:55 pm #31272scousecharlieParticipant
The kids these days are completely just on another level but unfortunately that’s the world we live in… you can’t keep a grown man locked up because soon as he gets out be straight in a k hole I’ve seen family go down the same route my cousin has a clostriphy bag know, I have my dependant which is coke and beer, not condemning any drug is less harmful than the next but horse tranquilliser and the way it effects you I just don’t no why it’s a big craze and growing
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September 29, 2022 at 10:05 am #31277kasmumParticipant
I hope you find the strength to realise coke and beer may not have such a happy ending and you’re better than that. ????
I’m scared my son may end up with a colostomy bag and/or any other serious things because of his addiction. As a parent you want the best life for your children and many of them are not making good choices. It’s so sad and such a waste of what could be a brilliant life.
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