[helen1969]

My son has been an addict for 11 years he has not lived at home for last 6 years he has lost his children and is homeless

I have suffered verbal abuse and he has smashed my house up

I am taking him to court for spitting at me and getting in my car because I would not give him money

I feel so guilty and cry all the time I love my son but cant carry on

[lindyloo]

Hi Helen and welcome to the forum. You’ll find a lot of people on here who’s loved ones have addictions and are on desperate situation.

Please don’t feel alone in this or blame yourself. Hes an adult who is making these choices, you are the one left to pick up the pieces, like so many of us here.

Click on ‘share your story ‘ and read the Theresa thread. There’s

About 6 of us mums all in similar situations. They are all lovely ladies who offer positive and wonderful support.

My son is 27 and has alcohol and cocaine addictions. Its been going on for 10yrs. He finally reached out to us last year.

Until they, themselves admit they have a problem and want help, anything you say or do will be pointless.

Don’t give him cash or pay off debts. I buy groceries and cigs if I have to.

Look after yourself first and foremost, take time for you, it’s important.

Always here to chat

Be strong,

Lx

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