Thank you for posting Elf and sharing your experience. How very hard it must be for you to see your daughter going the same way as her dad. If you feel it would help please contact The Icarus Trust. We are a charity that provides support for people who are going through what you are. Our trained volunteers are very experienced and would understand what you are going through if you would like to speak with them.
You can contact us on help@icarustrust.org or visit the website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the very best to you.