Thank you for posting. You’re quite right, living with someone with an addiction is really hard and has a huge impact on that person’s life.
Its good to hear that your partner has reached out for help but it sounds like you would like some support for yourself.
i work for a charity called Icarus Trust. We provide support for people living with a family member who has addictive behaviours. We have trained and experienced people who would listen to you and try to help you if you get in touch.
You can contact The Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org
All the best to you.