I’ve been with my husband for 7 years, he’s an alcoholic and hasn’t had a drink for 8 years. A couple of times he’s said he’s taken cocaine but always said he wouldn’t do it again. Sometimes it’s resulted in us being in debt because he was spending beyond his means. A couple of days ago he joined NA saying it was because his head wasn’t right and he wanted to sort things before it got to that point. I asked him to get some ciggies on the way home then the bombshell came, be said he had no money left, he had been paid the day before and he’s on a very good wage, I asked why he said pay day loans and drugs. My world fell apart, he’d been lying all these years. So he’s going to NA where he’ll help help and support but what about me what do I do, who can i talk to. Don’t think I’ve ever felt so alone.