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Hi Jodie, How are things now? I’m new to this forum. Unfortunately been going through shit for years with my partner

[cathsp]

Hi Jodie I was really struck by your post. What an upsetting and seriously unpleasant situation. Lockdown has turned most people lives upside down.

I know it’s a bit cliche but it sounds like you need to take one thing at a time.

Housing well he has the ball at his feet there! Sorry to say!

Cocaine, partner, money well where to start. No easy answers!

Give yourself sometime to think things through. Is your relationship is truly over. Could you put some limits on his cocaine usage? Would he follow them at least during contact with the kids.

It will take time to get your life back on track. Don’t give up.

I hope this post helps just know we are listening

[icarus-trust]

Hi Jodie,

Really sad to read your post and hear about the horrible affect other people’s cocaine habits have had on you. I’m sorry that you don’t feel you have people around you who would understand what you are going through. I can imagine that must be very hard.

Please contact us at The Icarus Trust if you would like to speak to someone who would understand what you are dealing with. We are a charity that offer support to people going through what you are. If you make contact I can put you in touch with one of our trained and experienced people. Maybe talking with one of them will help you to decide the way ahead.

You can contact Icarus Trust on help@icarustrust.org or visit our website http://www.icarustrust.org

All the very best to you and your family.

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