Myself and my husbands family performed an intervention to prove his significant addiction to alcohol and drugs after which he left the house and has been in a programme daily since . Due to the abuse I suffered ( verbal emotional and financial ) and the impact on the family I have not seen him since and we have barely spoken I have chosen to be no contact with him to recover myself and try to heal the family from the trauma he wreaked over our lives for 18 months . He has now been clean for 8 weeks and wants us to meet up on our wedding anniversary. I haven’t replied our wedding was a beautiful day which we both dearly loved and is special to us but I seriously don’t feel like any kind of celebration or marking of this after what has happened as I am still very hurt and betrayed by what he has done to us – has anyone had this sort of scenario before ? Does anyone have advice ? Thank you